Finally after working eleven days I have a long weekend, although I have a studio appointment on Saturday morning I am not back to the office until Tuesday morning which gives me enough time to recharge my batteries and also to have some time with that gorgeous girl who lives with me.
It seems that after losing two office staff, which have not yet been replaced I might add, have endured the workload that has been shared on we hardy souls who remain. That's one of the reasons why my blogs seem to be far and few between, my apologies for that.
I also note a distinct lack of comments as to how it was and I blame myself for being tired by the time I've sat at my desk and thrown up a diary entry really of absolute nothing!
So let the people speak, "Vox populi". If I get a feeling of what people like more then perhaps, past all the replies (if any) of "Just keep it as it is", I may get some indication of what is popular and what you prefer to see..
Please notice at the top of my right hand column, a poll. It's there until next Saturday. You may answer how you like of even contact me if you're really shy and express an option or opinion. It would be nice to have a response or two even to prove to me that you're alive and unlike Google spiders you just scan the page and leave.
I see a couple of responses already and I haven't even made the explanatory blog yet!
Spending a little time on the Internet as I do perhaps prompted an interesting question from my sweetheart. She asked, "Is it possible for two people to meet on the net and fall in love without physical attraction or body language or even pheromones."
Instantly I think of date sites, romance sites and introduction sites but of course these are designed for the people to physically meet. In yahoo chat, where I sometimes go to enjoy chats, I believe they call it 'long distance dating.' I am not sure of the success rate.
So I believe it is possible for two people who interact on the net to develop feeling for each other. There may well be many factors involved. If the two people in question are fairly lonely this may exasperate their emotions of wanting to 'connect' and I think as you consider my words you may remember that we could have 'feelings' for a movie star or musician and we don't even interact with them, we just 'idolize' from afar!
Back to the Internet! When we interact with someone in real life, face to face or by phone, we have chemicals released in our systems that creates change in us. I don't see why interaction with someone across the world wide won't do exactly the same thing since we are communicating with a person. These chemicals have us thinking that this person we talk with is really interesting and funny, we may start feeling admiration and respect for the person, hoping the person feels the same way about us, sharing goals with the person, and perhaps that would lead to the feelings of sexual desire for the person. This sounds like the onset of love to me and that is two souls crying out in this game we learn to play, singing "I don't want to be alone anymore."
Consider also that the person you think you love across the Internet may not be your soul mate after all. I think some may meet and then the physical signals they have mess up the great net relationship altogether.
Goodbye and thanks for all the e-mails and texts.
If love be true then love is something the greatest pain.
"But love is blind and lovers cannot see the pretty follies that themselves commit. Oh yes, love can make you foolish. It may be sublime, but it can grip us in the most inappropriate ways.
"Yes!" I tell my lover, "Two people can fall in love across the net but my love is here at home and I have no need to search out such haphazard companionships and possibly precarious encounters."

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